a good move?

[tufty]

I know I am a bit of a coward -and I have posted before on this man with whom I work - but I just need a little more confirmation (+dutch courage!) before I actually do something....

 

Last week he dropped a flier on my desk for some club night - Nobody else in the office got one and I knew it was his because they were lying on his desk- I went over to ask about it and he generally acted like a 14 year old schoolboy - picking lint , stammering and playing with tie- He didn't actually ask me to go.... but it was a sortof ... 'oh I might go type thing' - alas I couldn't make that night and tried to make is really clear I'd love to go but couldn't -then we spoke about other places locally doing similar stuff - and I managed to find a flyer a similar thing later on - the next day I mentioned it in passing and he didn't really react much- but is still attentive with eye contact + touch etc.

 

I'm thinking of dropping this thing(for the similar night) on his desk tomorrow - is this a good move? , I'm sortof waiting for him to ask to do something else - but wonder if he's waiting for me to do something, I thought I noticed an almost imperceptible/slight cooling off from him lately - though that might be my absolute paranoia as I am now watching and listening more intently than I did before this.......

 

 

I must seem a complete idiot - but it's been so long since I liked someone who also liked me that I am really worried about misreading signals.

 

 

Could I be?

[FuriousSam]

There's only one way to find out. If you want to ask him to go, go ask. Don't wait for more signals if you got some already (Or as long as they were not negative). Guess what happens to people who waits too long? The other party thought that he/she is not interested and they move on.

[Day_Walker]

Well somebody is gonna have to make a move or its not going to get anywhere. If you feel that he will respond positively to this then I would do it otherwise I would attempt something else perhaps somethign more casual like drinks or coffee after work.