Stuck.

[Seymore]

Hey, give yourself some credit...you are doing what you can to heal and it truly is a process and not a perfect process at that. You need to be patient with yourself. You aren't going to magically feel better and there isn't some secret to heal you. It truly does take time and you are only 4 months in. It took me a good 9 months until I really started to feel better. Everyone is different, just be kind to yourself.

 

Thanks, that's kind of you. I tend to want things right now and don't look at what I've done or how far I've come. Letting go of someone I loved dearly, her three kids and a dozen or so mutual friends has left a big hole in my life. I can't expect to fill that hole overnight with a flower pot. And I'm a bit more sensitive than a lot of people. My last relationship was a year and a half, and I think it took a year to get over fully.