Marriage advice

[abitbroken]

. I just need to change the way I think and be happy with what we have.

 

Be happy with what you have, but don't settle. Enjoy this stage of the relationship. you have been proposed to before and it did not last. My boyfriend and I decided that we will not have a long engagement. We will only be engaged when we are ready to marry and we are choosing a date/ready to choose or we will not be engaged and we will simply just plan a wedding. I a m looking forwad to getting married but not all the stress of pushy relatives and their wedding decor ideas. I think that you should just make sure that he is clear that you see yourself married with kids at some point, in the next few years. No pressure, just talk about where you see yourself in the next few years or so. Let him think about it and let it percolate. But do not let the past of getting proposed to to lock you into a relationship dictate things