Kah310392 Posted April 23, 2015 Share Posted April 23, 2015 3 weeks of no contact since he broke up with me over a text message. Struggling so much at how much he is blanking me, feeling like I've lost my right arm and after everything we have been through, through the years I find it so hard how he can be so hurtful and like he doesn't care. Not sure how to deal with my feelings somedays. Suffering with bad dreams which doesn't help as lack of sleep is making me more emotional. Any tips and advice Link to comment
Heavy Posted April 23, 2015 Share Posted April 23, 2015 Exercise is your friend, get out in the sun because what you will doing at the moment is staying indoors thinking about him. Focus on yourself, go out with friends or just hang with them at their houses. Set goals that you want, take a hoilday with some friends, gather all the stuff he has given you and place it in a box and put it somewhere that you won't see it everyday. Don't date or sleep with anybody till you feel right. There will be a better person out there for yo even though you can not see this at the moment. You can pm me if you want anytime. Good luck Link to comment
Khaleesi86 Posted April 24, 2015 Share Posted April 24, 2015 You may need to get used to doing things on your own. I've found my friends to be a bit of a disappointment as far as company goes, but I can't sit in my room forever. Become a regular at your local Starbuck's, join a sport, something. Link to comment
Lkut8 Posted April 24, 2015 Share Posted April 24, 2015 I'm going through the same thing. We broke up 2 months ago and had contact ever since, but today it's day 5 of NC... It's killing me. I miss him so badly. Link to comment
Kah310392 Posted April 24, 2015 Author Share Posted April 24, 2015 Yeah it's been 14 days for me nc struggling though I'm busy sometimes but then sometimes when I stop I start thinking. At night is the worst, I've resorted to puzzle books in bed to keep my mind occupied 😂 Link to comment
Lkut8 Posted April 24, 2015 Share Posted April 24, 2015 I actually bought some crossword puzzles, an actual puzzle, and want to order some coloring books! Everybody keeps telling me to go out with friends to get my mind off things and I have a few times, but it's so hard since most of my friends have boyfriends/fiances/husbands and when we go out, if the boyfriends don't come, then they constantly talk about them. I'd rather be alone lol Link to comment
Kah310392 Posted April 26, 2015 Author Share Posted April 26, 2015 I get a bit like that sometimes I enjoy being out sometimes but sometimes prefer to be on my own and find my own ways to keep my mind off things Link to comment
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