Ladytmt Posted October 18, 2014 Share Posted October 18, 2014 Why do some guys blow hot and cold? Exchanged numbers and for about 2 weeks straight or more I got good morning texts and all these texts throughout the day then out of the blue it vanishes. So I started to text him initially and he would respond but the whole vibe did not seem the same. For some reason I feel like he has the attention span of a 5 year old meaning he's warm to someone new for a few weeks and then boom he's tired of them? He did make a statement once saying that I am feeling you today but I don't know about tomorrow and he had an LOL behind and said it was a joke but it honestly has stuck in my head especially with his behavior. Was I right to cut ties with him and delete his number? I'm looking for a relationship and I feel he is not if his attention span is that mini. this is a 39 year old guy. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted October 18, 2014 Share Posted October 18, 2014 Have you met in person? Link to comment
Ladytmt Posted October 18, 2014 Author Share Posted October 18, 2014 Have you met in person? No we have not Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted October 18, 2014 Share Posted October 18, 2014 In that case, I would see it as no great loss and move on. You can do better... Link to comment
Ladytmt Posted October 18, 2014 Author Share Posted October 18, 2014 In that case, I would see it as no great loss and move on. You can do better... Ok thanks i just hate when people do that. I tend to take it personal. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted October 18, 2014 Share Posted October 18, 2014 I get the vibe from your posts that you are deeply sad as a person and struggle with self-esteem. I think you would do well to focus on therapy and self-love so that you can learn how to be more resilient and date smarter. Link to comment
blueidealist24 Posted October 18, 2014 Share Posted October 18, 2014 My hunch is that he's talking to other people/seeing them too and when he's "cold" he's after someone else at the moment. You may be right that he's got the attention span of a five year old and may be a tad immature, chasing anybody who he finds attractive instead of sticking to one or even a few people. Link to comment
Ladytmt Posted October 18, 2014 Author Share Posted October 18, 2014 My hunch is that he's talking to other people/seeing them too and when he's "cold" he's after someone else at the moment. You may be right that he's got the attention span of a five year old and may be a tad immature, chasing anybody who he finds attractive instead of sticking to one or even a few people. Yeah i guess i should have known better especially after he sent me a pic of him in only his underwear! I'm like whats that for and i made it clear after that that i was looking for a relationship not just some sex and i was not about to have him at my house when i barely know him... So maybe thats why he changed..,who knows Link to comment
m444 Posted October 18, 2014 Share Posted October 18, 2014 he's a douche. pic in underwear? douche. dont answer, forget about him. because he is douche Link to comment
Ladytmt Posted October 18, 2014 Author Share Posted October 18, 2014 he's a douche. pic in underwear? douche. dont answer, forget about him. because he is douche Yep pic in underwear and we barely know each other...and he said that normally wasn't his style and that "nude" was more his style. Link to comment
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