Flyer79 Posted September 21, 2014 Share Posted September 21, 2014 So as many of you may know I have been posting here the progress to breaking up (2 months ago) and healing and moving on from that.. I have been doing all the right things in getting over this and have little set backs every now and then but things seem to be getting easier in a sense. I knew that the ex was going to be in my area on the weekend as he was doing some work with our mutual friends. Mutual friend spoke to him about some stuff to do with us (returning each others items etc) she told me that he is still a mess over the break up. 2 months post break up, his decision to end things and HE is still a mess? I'm not sure what to think of that? Perhaps I am over thinking it and being silly. Link to comment
mhowe Posted September 21, 2014 Share Posted September 21, 2014 Break ups are hard on both parties...but that doesn't mean the aren't the right thing to do. Link to comment
Flyer79 Posted September 21, 2014 Author Share Posted September 21, 2014 Hmm yeah, but he should be much futher forward in the healing than what I should be! If he didn't have the same feelings, it would have been a given wouldn't it? Link to comment
mhowe Posted September 21, 2014 Share Posted September 21, 2014 There is no keeping score when it comes to healing the heart. Link to comment
Flyer79 Posted September 22, 2014 Author Share Posted September 22, 2014 There is no keeping score when it comes to healing the heart. True, I still find it very odd. I guess people act / respond differently to decisions they make. I tend to make them and move on in a sense. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted September 22, 2014 Share Posted September 22, 2014 He's dealing with this AND a divorce. Link to comment
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