aN advIce fOr BrokeN heArts

[tiki]

its tough when you lose someone you love...i know that. And sometimes is nice to hear some encouraging words that makes you feel a little better.

 

I kept a journal while i was going through my "heart broken" stage and i thought i should quote some of my thoughts and the lessons i have learned from this whole experience. So here it goes:

 

"if you just sit in a room and stare at the wall, nothing will happen. You need to get up and aviod drowning in your own misery"

 

"No matter how much other people try to understand what ur going through, they can only imagine....in the the end, you are the only one who is truly feeling the pain. The whole world is willing to laugh with you but once bad times roll in, you will cry alone and thats ok."

 

"Ive been keeping myself busy and pushing myself beyond the limit lines just to reach that moment of peace when i forget about him for a couple minutes."

 

"I can't keeo living through memories and tears, life is too d@mn short to spend time being depressed."

 

"the only way to heal the pain is if you stop picking at the scab"

 

"Thoughts constantly run through your head a million miles a minute and in the midst of all the chaos is the peace of mind that you seek for. Once you stop asking why what when and how, the answers surface and you have to look no more. Some things in life aren't meant to be explained...they just ARE and resisting reality can only cause more pain"

 

"When you meet someone new and no traces of the past shadows your thoughts, you have reached the end of it"

 

"life goes on no matter how bad things get...you cant let yourself get left behind"

 

"its a great feeling to find peace and comfort within yourself. I've never felt that way before."

 

"God! he broke me up and tore me apart. But i somehow managed to get back up and pick up the pieces of my life"

 

"I miss him at times and i think thats legitimate. Afterall, i truly love him and always will. We will always have the great memories of the past but the future is ahead of me.....not behind me. So its time to bounce out!"

 

I hope that helped a little bit. Just hang in there and remember that you are the only one who has the control to make things better.

[tiger_lilies]

Those words ring true. Thanks for that!

 

I remember going through the same things when healing after my break up. It's taught me so much and I am a different person today because of the that.

[LorenaLee]

Wow thanks for that! It is nice to see that other people go through similar feelings! Thank you!

[tiki]

im glad it helped

[katiekate1982]

That makes me smile. I'm glad things are working out for you. Good luck!!

[HajiMaji]

Thanks for sharing, its nice to hear that stuff.

[clodhopper]

I also started a journal when I was going through my breakup... I didn't come up with quite as optimistic thoughts as you did, but I'm really glad you shared them. You've given me a better perspective on my situation, and hopefully I can be more optimistic from now on, thanks!!

[allowishus]

I just want to say that having read your message, it's every word that I have been going through. I am glad that I am not alone in this. Your words, have not only encouraged me to move on, but has inspired me to see that I have my life ahead of me. I have been wanting to start my journal for quite some time now but am at a loss not knowing what to write, although I feel that I have so much emotions to write down. If you don't mind I'd like to put your message on the very first page of my journal to remind me of someone who has given me inspiration. Thank you for sharing that.