Going thru it all again because of her!

[Lonly1InOrlando]

Here it is ... i posted a thing up here over the summer ... now my ex and i broke up in june . I went thru hell to get her out of my head and heart ... we started talking again in october after i was finally ok!

We hung out alot and all said everything we said before to each other. But now she needs"time" again and i have no idea why she is putting my thru this again. We talked about it all and she doesnt know what she wants one day and the next thinks i am what she wants!

 

I cant believe that i let the same girl do the same crap to me again!this girl has told me she is scared i will fall in love with someone else and how she cant lose me, and how she wants to have my kids! She cant stop messing with my head ( if you ever heard face to face from sevendust thats to her) I know keeping busy and stuff with help me again but its hard ... really hard. Cant believe i let the same girl who put me at the worse part of my life do it again to me I'm so hurt and i dont know what to do about it... email me if anyone has a similiar story or anything that'll help!

 

Smokey

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Wimmen

 

I think every guy on this forum has a similar story...or they will one day

 

LOL.

[Shizzle]

yep..am still 3 months into getting over my fiance.... now she wil be at my college in january with her new bf

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Sorry to hijack this thread a bit, but you are 16 and were already engaged?!? Wow! I am not even sure what the legal age to get married is in Canada, I thought it was 18.

[ocean9]

Lonly,

 

Try not to be so hard on yourself. Obviously you are a very loving person to even give her a second chance. I can just imagine the pain (and anger) you are feeling right now. Unbelievable!

 

Is this woman in therapy? It sounds like she needs it (no offense).

[kalshane]

Man, I'm sorry this is happening to you... again! If you learn anything, learn that people will get away with what we allow them to. I'm very blessed to have never heard, " I need time" from someone. I honestly think it means: I need time to hook up with someone else! She'll probably be back and when that happens, Tell her you need time, too. Time to never see her again!!!

[Shizzle]

Sorry to hijack this thread a bit, but you are 16 and were already engaged?!? Wow! I am not even sure what the legal age to get married is in Canada, I thought it was 18.

 

yes..silly boy in love