2 Guys...one BIG decision...What should I do???

[model46]

Hi,

 

Two and a half years ago, I dated a guy for over a year. We broke up because his "buddies" were influencing everything he did, and some of those things I definitely didn't agree with...so really just an immature "phase" thing that he was going through. A Year and a half ago, I met someone else. He was great! We had similar interest, could make eachother laugh, and enjoyed spending time together. Now, for about 3 or 4 months, we've been fighting constantly (over pretty little things...). I feel like he doesn't care about me as much as he did before, and this fighting is really tough. Unfortunately, he doesn't think there's anything wrong, just that I'm "too picky". I recently talkes to some of my old boyfriend's buddies, and they said he hasn't dated anyone since we broke up, and he's gotten his life together, and that he still wants to be with me! What do you think I should do? I feel completely torn apart! I love my current boyfriend, but do you think the fighting is just something we're going through, or that we've just both changed, and now we're not really "compatible"? Please help me!!!

[Babes]

Follow your heart!! Dont listen to your brain forget the logic of it all and just Listen to what your heart is telling you. I mean your ex may be the mad you are suppose to be with or maybe its your Boyfriend. All I have to say is listen to your Heart and you will make the right choice because no one else can make it for you

[silvanesti]

Hi... now don't laugh. But flip a coin.

 

Here's how you should do it... Convince yourself that the person who wins the coin toss is the one you're going to choose. The one you are going to spend the rest of you life with.

 

Now how do you feel about that? Depending on who wins, and how you feel because the person won could be a good indicator of where your heart truly lies.

 

But don't lie to yourself, or this won't work.