I've always kinda wanted to experiment with a girl...

[oitnb]

I'm not sure where to put this thread, but I figured personal growth would be applicable to this issue.

 

Anyways, ever since I hit puberty I've always wanted to experiment with a girl. Don't get me wrong, I love guys and am most certainly attracted to them, but I also sometimes see an attractive girl and check her out like I would if I saw a hot guy...

 

I also enjoy lesbian porn from time to time. I'm not sure if this is a fantasy, or real feelings I should explore... I could never see myself marrying a woman or anything like that.

 

I don't even know how I'd go about trying this, if I did! If I did, I would do it secretly and not tell anyone so I could sort out my own feelings about it...

 

I guess my main questions are one : should I keep this a fantasy? Two : how does one even go about it? Post an ad : first time girl looking for a lesbian experience? And three : I'm talking to a guy I REALLY like, but we're not "official" yet, though things are quite serious and I feel it's heading that way... Should I take him into consideration? (No, I don't mean a threesome, but should I even tell him about it?)

 

I'm very confused here.

[surfjon]

It's not so odd anymore......

 

Most girls I date like girls too, I'm ok with it as long as I'm included....otherwise it's just simple cheating, and nobody can reason otherwise.....

 

Not sure if you're talkin solo girl-grl stuff, but most guys are ok with a girl joining them in bed......

[oitnb]

It's not so odd anymore......

 

Most girls I date like girls too, I'm ok with it as long as I'm included....otherwise it's just simple cheating, and nobody can reason otherwise.....

 

Not sure if you're talkin solo girl-grl stuff, but most guys are ok with a girl joining them in bed......

 

Uh, if I did anything, it would be strictly me and another girl. I'm doing this for me and my feelings. Not for the pleasure of a man.

[pl3asehelp]

If I was dating you and found out you did this and hid it I would conclude you're not trustworthy and stop seeing you. In an case I'd consider it cheating.

[oitnb]

If I was dating you and found out you did this and hid it I would conclude you're not trustworthy and stop seeing you. In an case I'd consider it cheating.

 

Even if we're not official yet and haven't had the "exclusive" talk? We've only been dating two months or so.

[pl3asehelp]

Even if we're not official yet and haven't had the "exclusive" talk? We've only been dating two months or so.

 

Yep. I know can find someone interested in only me, so why compromise and be with someone who's unsure of their sexuality and is interested in pushing others.

[mhowe]

Yeah...its more the you are unclear on your sexual preference... I wouldn't want to be dating someone who was ambivalent about it. And if you think you might be bi, then that chat needs to come up when you have the "exclusive" talk.

[In the Dark]

Even if we're not official yet and haven't had the "exclusive" talk? We've only been dating two months or so.

 

You are still walking a dangerous path if you choose to do anything sexual with another person while dating someone.

If this is a must do thing, then you will have to understand regardless of what the rules say about being exclusive or not, you are jeopardizing whatever you have with the current person in your life.

 

If you can live with keeping the sexual encounter with another female a secret, then you will be able t get away with it.

 

My own conscience would not allow me to do it.

[malvy]

How high is your attraction towards females? Is there a girl in particular you're feeling seriously drawn to? Are you feeling confused about your sexuality or just about what your course of action should be?