randy33 Posted October 28, 2013 Share Posted October 28, 2013 perhapsthe reality of your relationship was not so good..but the internal feelings and longing create images and memories that make it hard to let go. I found this article and it really resonated..made sense on so many levels for me and allowed me to free up some healing space! I just thought Id share in hopes of uplifting the spirits of some of us. check it out! link removed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SooSad33 Posted October 28, 2013 Share Posted October 28, 2013 Very good Randy.. thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mg22 Posted October 28, 2013 Share Posted October 28, 2013 Time is the Ultimate healer, we learn to detach any emotional feelings from the EX ! as time goes by we forget that feeling and eventually we fall out of love. Took me 2 long years but i made it !! The only rule you must follow is the NC RULE. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bittensmitten Posted October 30, 2013 Share Posted October 30, 2013 Found the conclusion particularly encouraging: "We are revealed to ourselves through our relationships. Maybe in some ways all loves are important in allowing us to experience ourselves as loving." Perhaps a great way to look at our experiences with love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iam42 Posted October 30, 2013 Share Posted October 30, 2013 I LOVE this article! it moved me to tears. I have two exes who were incredibly dear to me and whom I believe I will love and miss in some way for the rest of my life. neither of these men have the characteristics of people I keep in my life actively. so while i love them, I understand that I cannot continue to know them. this article helps me to resolve what feels like a deep and painful internal contradiction. thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Qac Posted October 31, 2013 Share Posted October 31, 2013 i cant seem to open up the link.. is it working? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IWillPrevail Posted October 31, 2013 Share Posted October 31, 2013 This was a great article. It gave me hope that things may turn out for the best, as I'm a logical person and know they will. I think that the BU is so fresh and I want nothing more than to keep fighting for what I believe in that I start to feel a bit lost. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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