She is afraid to commit to me, because she is with him.

[yellowsnow]

There is this girl that comes over to my house and I go to hers. She told me she liked me I told her I liked her. She has a bf. He got jealous of me so he told her a girl liked him to make her feel jealous. Well she wanted to kiss me several times and didn't because she has a bf. But she wont choose, and i keep being left hanging. she likes me but she does not want to hurt him so shes staying with him. She told me she was going to stop hanging around me, she stopped texting me. and calling me. I dont want to lose her. Any advice?

[hockeyboy]

if shes choosing him, let go. let her go. if she really likes you she'll contact you. otherwise, why be w/ someone who doesnt want to be with you.

[yellowsnow]

ok, that sounds fair. I did not wantto come accross mean but I wanted a way to tell her u cant have us both, but I guess she chose him, I will justwait n see, she has mynumber

[psipro]

"If you love someone let them go. If they return to you they were always yours, if they dont they never were"

 

Not my words but I dont remembe who said them.

 

I dont recomend being jerked around like that, it hurts more in the end. She cant date both of you.

[yellowsnow]

Thnks guys, its just hard

[psipro]

And afterwards it may seem worse, but in the end whatever decision you chose to make will be the right one, promise.