snappy Posted November 26, 2004 Share Posted November 26, 2004 Totally confused! Both of us broke up with long term partners 5 months ago before we met. We hit it off straight away, laughed , talked, are in similar jobs and amazing sexual energy. I am totally over my ex and even had the 'dating rebound' thing. He is not. He said last night, when I felt things were rather intimate and emotional, "just want to make sure we are on the same page that we like each other but are not in a relationship or anything serious" He said the reasons being is that he is very jaded and is still sorting out lots of stuff from his ex and is not even sure how to be in a relationship anymore. I said do you just want to be friends and he said no way! I said do you not see yourself as being in a relationship with me? He said I am the very much the sort of person he would want a relationship with but is not capable of feeling anything serious at the moment. He is obviously talking about me to his friends and I have even met some of them and they made a real effort to be nice to me which I thought was a good sign. I know he had recently dated some women who he slept with but made it obvious to them that he would never want to be in a relationship with them. He said he has no intensions of a relationship but that he loves spending time with me and that we get along so well ( am I stupid for not asking for a time frame when he would be ready or was that a good move?) That's what I am caught at. He said I am very much his type. Am I being used or is he really just being careful about being hurt and thereforeeee wants to take it slow? What should I do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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