Helpme86 Posted November 18, 2004 Share Posted November 18, 2004 Well, I met this girl a couple of years ago in a high school class. She sat next to me and our two desk were separated from the rest of the class, along with one other kid. We were not bad kids, only there was not enough room in the class for all of our desks. Heres the scoop. She and I talked a bit for the first few weeks of school and I became more comfortable around her. She is very atractive and has a great personality. I on the other hand am not that atractive but aparently she did not care. I started to like her more and more everyday but never acted more than just a "school friend". When second semester rolled around the seating in the class changed and we no longer sat next to each other. As her luck would have it, her new B/F was also in that class and they were always talking and with each other. So she and I never really talked much after that. I got her AIM SN and I talked to her a bit on that but she was rarely on. Well school ended and we never really taked again until senior year, besides the occasional hi in the hall. Sr year we had another class together, but in my oppinion we were just too far apart to talk like we used to and I became less comfortable around her. Agian we would talk a bit but nothing more than a school friend. I learned that she was going AWAY to college and I was just torn. So I finally got the balls to ask her to do something. She showed some intrest in paintballing, I paintball, so I aksed her if she wanted to come with one time. She gave me her cell number and I called her later on asking if she wanted to go. She said she did not think she would so I was like thats cool, Oh well right. The time passed and I asked when she was leaving for college, I found out it was "soon" and she was happy to go. I then asked if she wanted to do something before she left, she said sure. School ended for the summer before college and I called her like two or three times over the summer. In the end we never did anything. She then left for college and I never really got to say goodbye. It turned out that she went on AIM for the first time in over a year! I talked to her for a bit, then I worked the balls up agian to tell her I liked her. I did. Not much was said after that. She just did not know what to say. Long story short (LMAO not really) she kind of knew I liked her, but she only liked me as a friend. We talked on and off and something arose that seemed to almost change her opinion on me. She realized that I have been nothing short of really nice to her and she never "noticed it". She said when she gets back from college (shes coming home for good to go to JR college like me 8) ) that we would do something. She has told me several times that we are just friends and that she has a serious boyfriend. I said I know. Not that long ago I was talking to her and she said that she wanted to get through JR college ASAP to get to her current B/F's college. I said how long you going to be there, she said a year, OR LESS! I was like, great! Ever since then I can't get my mind off of her. It would really f-ing blow to lose her as a friend because I've never like any one like this before. For the past few weeks she has not been responding to my AIM IM. Its not like she does not want to talk to me, I think, she is just really busy. I just like talking to her and its sucks really bad that I have not been able to. OK, long story short for you lazy people, jk. I can't get her out of my head and it is really aggravating me. It's almost hurting my day to day activities. What should I do? Any comments on what to do if we ever do somethingThanks to all of you who took the time to post and read this. BTW, I'm so dead if she ever reads this! I'm sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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