How to find out what her intentions are

[Tanqueray]

Hello,

 

I have a work colleague who has recently got me wondering if she feels attracted toward me for a couple of reasons.

 

I want to find out if that is really the case, but I also don't want to ask directly. Mostly because I don't want to hear a "What, you thought *I* was interested?"

 

How would you go along doing so?

 

Thanks.

[Deejmonster]

I would be direct and ask. If they aren't interested the worse that they will say is no. However, I am the kind of person who doesn't like to bring work into my love life. There are plenty of other places to meet people.. I think work should stay strictly professional. Many might disagree though

[Ms Darcy]

I would gently advise not dating a work colleague.

[unicornrocks]

What has she done at work to make you think it's flirting? Also, have you flirted with her at all"?