Stay_home Posted February 22, 2013 Share Posted February 22, 2013 Do YOU want to have sex with him or not? If not then just let him go and find what he's looking for. The bottom line is that you have a man in front of you who obviously is attracted to you and probably, yes, wants to have sex with you. That is the bottom line, period. He is interested and curious to find out about you probably both physically and mentally. It's just a matter of which one between those two comes first. But none of that means dog doo-doo if you aren't interested in him. Listen, sometimes you can't always expect people to meet you where you would like for them to be in life. You have to meet them where they're at and be willing to work things out with them. He could very well use your experience against you as someone who has been around, just as in accusatory fashion you believe that he isn't experienced enough. I agree that a 30 year old man who is a virgin or has little relationship experience (most likely) has a long way to go in terms understanding how intimacy and understanding the way relationships work. So if you're not willing to give him the trainee hat, then you should walk away. Link to comment
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