gramstar11 Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 Anyone else experience these? Im quite happy, having a lovely day... Then out of nowhere pops a picture of the ex and his new girlfriend into my head... Of them getting married, having babies, cuddling, laughing together. And i feel horrendous. Why does this happen? I hate them and cant control them! Link to comment
babygirl00 Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 I completely relate...... I picture my ex being how he was with me in the beginning... So sweet and loving. But I also picture that continuing with her instead of ending like it did with me. It's not easy to stop these thoughts even though they serve no healthy purpose. Link to comment
Limiya Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 I have the same thoughts every day. It's been 5 months. It's his birthday tomorrow, and i'm sure they will do something special. It feels strange not spending his bday with him. I'm gonna try hard to not let it get to me. The thoughts of them together are awful. I have to keep reminding myself he is not an easy person to have a relationship with. Limiya Link to comment
MakesNoSense Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 Anyone else experience these? Im quite happy, having a lovely day... Then out of nowhere pops a picture of the ex and his new girlfriend into my head... Of them getting married, having babies, cuddling, laughing together. And i feel horrendous. Why does this happen? I hate them and cant control them! This is quite normal. Last night I went to bed without a knot in my stomach feeling ok. This morning I wake up feeling horrible again & a total mess from memories of the good times we shared. It's just part of the healing process I guess. I hope so anyway Link to comment
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