Guys:What do you think of your gf / wife hugging another guy

[drahcir]

Hey guys, what do you think when you see your girlfriend / wife hugging another guy? What if that other guy hugs her?

[i know it]

honestly it would piss me off...then again im the jealous type i probably wouldnt confront them about it unless it led to flirting and such

[avman]

Oh its just a hug. I hug people all the time and there is nothing more to the guesture than a greeting and a "happy to see you" kind of thing.

 

It's never bothered me when my partner hugs someone else.

[ComputerGuy]

Unless she was like all over him I wouldnt care less...it's just a hug as avman said.

[AmikeA]

If it truly bothers you be careful how you handle it. Certainly don't freak out while she is hugging someone. Just let her know it bothers you, don't be mean or act superior etc... And DO NOT bring it up during a fight or disagreement. I would recomend a neutral time when you are both alone, maybe watching tv or a movie or something calm. Bring it up something like "I know you mean nothing by it but it bothers me when...." If something truly bothers you its best to talk about it before it strains your relationship.