lonelyguy Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 How do you know if a girl who knows you like her talks to you online just because she is being nice but she really doesn't like you? Like how can you distinguish if she is just talking to you and being nice because she feels bad for you and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings? Link to comment
aireyc Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 If you like her or not, and if she's nice or not, I don't think girls talk to you online just to be nice. They either talk because they like you, you're friends, they need help, or they're bored. Chris Link to comment
antzca2000 Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 well if she messages you when you log on, thats a good sign. If she replies really slow, thats a bad sign. If you run out of things to say to her, thats a bad sign. If your making her type *LOL* or *ROFL* every two seconds, thats a good sign. Link to comment
lonelyguy Posted October 16, 2004 Author Share Posted October 16, 2004 well she says haha alot and stuff and sometimes makes jokes but im the one who IMs her cuz she swears that she only goes online to see who wants to talk to her?? Link to comment
aireyc Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 Don't message her and see if she messages you. Of course she's going to talk to you if you message her. Chris Link to comment
lonelyguy Posted October 16, 2004 Author Share Posted October 16, 2004 Ive tried that before and plus she said she only IMs people who IM her Link to comment
antzca2000 Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 some popular girls do that cause theirs always like 10-15 people trying to strike up a conversation Do you talk to her IRL? Link to comment
lonelyguy Posted October 16, 2004 Author Share Posted October 16, 2004 Oh wait nvm i think i know what you mean now lol. No i dont but i should. she never talks to me though, its like im not even there but from far away she stares at me (i dunno if its cuz she knows i like her and she wants to see how much i look at her or if she likes me) Link to comment
antzca2000 Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 if she knows you like her then shed look at you for sure. Personalyl I think relationships are established easier when the computer isnt overly involved. Next toime she walks by you, tap her in the shoulder, smile and wave, give a cheerful hi. If you dont talk to her IRL then chances her she wont do it either. Link to comment
lonelyguy Posted October 16, 2004 Author Share Posted October 16, 2004 I dont get it why would she look so many times to see if i am looking at her when she already knows I like her. If she didn't like me, wouldn't she know that it would make me think she likes me? Link to comment
aireyc Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 Dude people look at others all the time. If you're in her subconscience, she's naturally going to look at you more. It's sometimes hard to control. Chris Link to comment
lonelyguy Posted October 16, 2004 Author Share Posted October 16, 2004 So is it a good thing that im in her subconscious? lol Link to comment
antzca2000 Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 of course its a good thing, you just gotta make it into a great thing. Link to comment
lonelyguy Posted October 16, 2004 Author Share Posted October 16, 2004 So then I should just try talking to her at school and try to read her body language and go from there? Link to comment
antzca2000 Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 focus on talking to her in school. But do take notice on certain body language (dont stare at her breasts/hips/legs when your reading her body language) Link to comment
lonelyguy Posted October 16, 2004 Author Share Posted October 16, 2004 So how do you take notice without really looking? Link to comment
antzca2000 Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 I said dont stare, and trust me men findit VERY easy to glance south rather then keep on the womans eyes. Link to comment
lonelyguy Posted October 16, 2004 Author Share Posted October 16, 2004 Alright i'll try talking to her next week when I see her, hopefully all goes well Link to comment
antzca2000 Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 gotta have confidence aight? Good luck Link to comment
lonelyguy Posted October 16, 2004 Author Share Posted October 16, 2004 Thanx, its just the fact that she already knows I like her that makes me nervous lol Link to comment
antzca2000 Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 haha ya i know how you feel, do you have in mind what you would say to her if you guys started chatting? If i were you id start thunking of questions to ask and *funny* jokes to make and tease her with. Link to comment
lonelyguy Posted October 16, 2004 Author Share Posted October 16, 2004 I was thinking about that but then again i dunno because anything unexpected could happen Link to comment
Gauchori Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 Dude why don't you do what I do... when you are on MSN or AIM... when everything its funny, its a game and stuff just say- You really like me do ya?/don't you?- I know this may sound crazy but she will find you more interesting this way. If you think I just want to put you on the line, let me tell you that I have also done this... Its nuts but I have actually gotten the confidence to do it, and nothing ever bad happened because I knew how to hadle the situation... Take care 8) Link to comment
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