Tiny question

[lonelyguy]

How do you know if a girl who knows you like her talks to you online just because she is being nice but she really doesn't like you? Like how can you distinguish if she is just talking to you and being nice because she feels bad for you and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings?

[aireyc]

If you like her or not, and if she's nice or not, I don't think girls talk to you online just to be nice. They either talk because they like you, you're friends, they need help, or they're bored.

 

Chris

[antzca2000]

well if she messages you when you log on, thats a good sign.

 

If she replies really slow, thats a bad sign.

 

If you run out of things to say to her, thats a bad sign.

 

If your making her type *LOL* or *ROFL* every two seconds, thats a good sign.

[lonelyguy]

well she says haha alot and stuff and sometimes makes jokes but im the one who IMs her cuz she swears that she only goes online to see who wants to talk to her??

[aireyc]

Don't message her and see if she messages you. Of course she's going to talk to you if you message her.

 

Chris

[lonelyguy]

Ive tried that before and plus she said she only IMs people who IM her

[antzca2000]

some popular girls do that cause theirs always like 10-15 people trying to strike up a conversation Do you talk to her IRL?

[lonelyguy]

whats IRL?

[aireyc]

in real life

 

Chris

[lonelyguy]

Oh wait nvm i think i know what you mean now lol. No i dont but i should. she never talks to me though, its like im not even there but from far away she stares at me (i dunno if its cuz she knows i like her and she wants to see how much i look at her or if she likes me)

[antzca2000]

if she knows you like her then shed look at you for sure. Personalyl I think relationships are established easier when the computer isnt overly involved. Next toime she walks by you, tap her in the shoulder, smile and wave, give a cheerful hi. If you dont talk to her IRL then chances her she wont do it either.

[lonelyguy]

I dont get it why would she look so many times to see if i am looking at her when she already knows I like her. If she didn't like me, wouldn't she know that it would make me think she likes me?

[aireyc]

Dude people look at others all the time. If you're in her subconscience, she's naturally going to look at you more. It's sometimes hard to control.

 

Chris

[lonelyguy]

So is it a good thing that im in her subconscious? lol

[antzca2000]

of course its a good thing, you just gotta make it into a great thing.

[lonelyguy]

So then I should just try talking to her at school and try to read her body language and go from there?

[antzca2000]

focus on talking to her in school. But do take notice on certain body language (dont stare at her breasts/hips/legs when your reading her body language)

[lonelyguy]

So how do you take notice without really looking?

[antzca2000]

I said dont stare, and trust me men findit VERY easy to glance south rather then keep on the womans eyes.

[lonelyguy]

Alright i'll try talking to her next week when I see her, hopefully all goes well

[antzca2000]

gotta have confidence aight? Good luck

[lonelyguy]

Thanx, its just the fact that she already knows I like her that makes me nervous lol

[antzca2000]

haha ya i know how you feel, do you have in mind what you would say to her if you guys started chatting? If i were you id start thunking of questions to ask and *funny* jokes to make and tease her with.

[lonelyguy]

I was thinking about that but then again i dunno because anything unexpected could happen

[Gauchori]

Dude why don't you do what I do... when you are on MSN or AIM... when everything its funny, its a game and stuff just say- You really like me do ya?/don't you?- I know this may sound crazy but she will find you more interesting this way. If you think I just want to put you on the line, let me tell you that I have also done this... Its nuts but I have actually gotten the confidence to do it, and nothing ever bad happened because I knew how to hadle the situation... Take care 8)