Deep pain, negative thoughts , sexual doubts

[ATLstudent]

I Am experiencing a deep pain that I know very well, I always feel it when I date girls , not hook up or one time dating , but Girls I've dated in the past and a current date I just went to a club with.....anyway I am not having a great time I don't really like clubs but she is really turning me on, and I do like her, but there's this thing where I tune out and disassociate from the situation and I am just kinda of standing there all night , definitely no connecting going on, so I dint know if it's something I should tuff through and work out or it means I should walk away from the situation*