MissieP Posted February 19, 2012 Share Posted February 19, 2012 I have realized after thinking it over and hearing different response from other users that I shouldn't be sad anymore. I finally got my closure and yes it hurt because I have to realize he chose her over me and honestly there isn't anything I can do about it but I also have to realize Missie he was a jerk and very mean to you why would you even want him back? I ask myself that question everyday and I still don't know Maybe I liked how we shared the same taste in music or TV shows or maybe I liked how he made me laugh but he also made me cry. I keep asking myself he claims he has changed and maybe he has for the time being but I know all of his faults and I know every single one of his issues and I know someone cannot change overnight sure they can change for the time being but once all of that wears off the issues will still lie and their true selves will eventually come out because he did it to me. I never saw his " true" self until the honeymoon phase went away and his true self finally emerged. My point is this and this goes for anyone who is going through heartbreak do not blame yourself! Who is the loser in the game? The person who winds up with our ex. We all know what they are like and we know how they treated us and we know all of their issues and we know how they made us cry and do you think for one second they won't do the same thing to the new person? The answer is of course! Leopards never change their spots remember that I know it hurts believe me! Just be thankful you do not have to deal with them anymore and remember the new person has to deal with them now it is their problems now. Smile and be happy and one day I know we will forget our exes and it is okay to think about them from time to time that is perfectly normal!!!! We are all here for each other Link to comment
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