mg22 Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 My ex fiance dumped me 4 months ago and is happy with someone new, he dumped me no closure just left ! ive found out that he has a pattern of doing this in all his relationships... he jumps from relationship to relationships.. not healthy ! i also learned while being in a relationship he is out looking for women., i had a feeling deep inside me he was always doing things behind my back., so many signs.. he would always hide his cell phone, once i did get to his phone, and there were so many calls to many women.. Ive come to the conclusion hes a SOCIOPATH, ive been reading all the signs and he fits every sign. Link to comment
Awoken Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 You are probably right, BUT you can't be concerned about him anymore. He's gone, which is a huge positive for you! Start moving on with your life as I'm sure it is going to be a lot better without a "sociopath" like your ex Link to comment
melrich Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 There are always going to be people out there who are serial offenders but that does not mean that there are not people out there that cannot change there ways. ounds like you were unlucky enough to meet a serial cheater. Just thank your stars you did not axctually marry the guy and don't waste any more time thinking about him. Link to comment
Flyingpiglet Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 It may sting a bit now but he's done you a HUGE favour by leaving. Don't go chasing closure with this guy, bid him good riddance and consider it a lesson learnt! Link to comment
mg22 Posted November 21, 2011 Author Share Posted November 21, 2011 Iam still hurting , i know he was not good for me, but iam glad i found out ! and i do feel sorry for the new women hes with.. i hope someday all these scares hes left with me will go away. Link to comment
RubyWoo Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 Sounds exactly like my ex... he's already seeing and sleeping with someone new after 5 years of us living together! It's been two months since he left. But all throughout summer I think there was something going on, he kept texting women, giving me poor excuses, and just being cold and uncaring for me. I miss him a lot and I'm so hurt and haunted by the thoughts of him being physical with his new conquest. But part of me knows someone who does that to you DOES NOT love you. Guess what? Not only do I think he's a sociopath, he calls himself that as well... Link to comment
Lester Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 Most of us learn by are mistakes. It sounds like you are beginning to acknowledge your inner feelings and alarms. I think that's great! Link to comment
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