princessinblue Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 Im 18 and my boyfriends 20. We are both still pretty young, but I found out 2 days ago that I was pregnant. We told his sister and his parents the first day and my parents the second. I was so afraid to tarnish there opinions of me. I'm probably not going to come out of my room when they are home. I feel trapped and like Im afraid to breathe because I know there opinion of me is forever ruined (not his parents, but mine. His parents are extremely supportive). My mom was like "Its your body and your choice, but I would like to see you have a real start at life." My boyfriends helped out in an abortion clinic.He still gets flashbacks from holding the little pieces of aborted fetus' in his hands. I don't think I could have an abortion, but I'm so afraid of what my family will think of me and I love my boyfriend very much. He is the kindest man I have ever met and I know if I got an abortion I may risk ruining my relationship with him. Even though he said he would still love me no matter what I chose he was crying while he said it. There is thing in my stomach I already have to start looking out for, but I don't even know what I want. All I know at the end of the day is I want a life with my boyfriend. I want to marry him and have his children (eventually). Would it be right for me to give it away because it would be harder on myself? I think me and my boyfriend could honestly handle raising it with no sleep, working and still taking college courses. Honestly I am almost sure we could do it all. I realize it will probably be the most difficult thing I will ever have to do. Im still at a minimum wage job I'm basically no where with no room for advancement. My boyfriend is being promoted and most likely promoted again soon after this to manager and if he isn't his father just bought a house with extra rooms in a different state and there's a job at his uncles company waiting there for him if he wants it. Not to mention his sisters boyfriend walked out on her when they found out they were pregnant so my boyfriend spent a couple years helping his sister raise a child so he already knows exactly what its like, but I guess I really don't and I'm scared. I don't know what I'm doing and I'm afraid to ask. I would really like opinions on my situation. Link to comment
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