Promises10 Posted November 19, 2011 Share Posted November 19, 2011 If your ex promised you that you would hear from him/her again, that you would see him/her again, and they swore on his/her family, would you believe him/her? My ex recently left me for someone else. We were not together very long, but this breakup has caused me so much pain. When asked if we would ever be together again, he said not now, not in the near future, but possibly in the future, but it won't be for a long time. He said that he wants to be friends, but we can't have any contact right now. He suggested NC and as much as it hurts to not have contact, I agreed. I understand that NC is for healing, but I also understand that if there is any chance of ever hearing from or seeing your ex again, and if there is any chance of future reconciliation, you must leave your ex alone. Because NC is mutual, I'm unsure as to who would make contact first. I'm assuming that it would have to be him, since he was the one who left me. Holding on to his promises will only prolong my pain, but I truly want to believe that his promises are sincere. This has been one of the worst experiences of my life. I just hope I can get through this, whether his promises are sincere or not. Link to comment
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