he'd be happier without me

[tea4me]

My boyfriend has been crabby for a few months now. I came to the conclusion that he would be happier without me.

 

Last weekend he told me I am the rudest person her ever met. (The next day he told me I'm not.) Now he told me I deserve to be alone. -- Then he tells me that he loves me.

 

He ruins my day at least one day a week by making me feel bad.

 

* * * ??? Why would someone do that? How would you react to this?

[Flyingpiglet]

 

* * * ??? Why would someone do that?

 

Why would you allow him do it and keep sticking around?

[Eocsor]

My boyfriend has been crabby for a few months now. I came to the conclusion that he would be happier without me.

 

Last weekend he told me I am the rudest person her ever met. (The next day he told me I'm not.) Now he told me I deserve to be alone. -- Then he tells me that he loves me.

 

He ruins my day at least one day a week by making me feel bad.

 

* * * ??? Why would someone do that? How would you react to this?

 

You have to stick up for yourself. Have enough respect for yourself that if someone treats you that way, you leave.

[RedDress]

That is emotional abuse.

[agent1607307371]

I came to the conclusion that he would be happier without me.

 

The conclusion I came to is that you would be happier without him.

[eternalsunrise]

The conclusion I came to is that you would be happier without him.

 

^^^this^^^

[nickgee667]

GET OUT! It's one thing for him to be feeling down, but for him to try to bring you down with him, that's just rude. Kick his ass out!