annwinsall Posted November 11, 2011 Share Posted November 11, 2011 Hello so this is my story. my bf and i strtd dating like arnd 6 months he broke up with his ex (he dated her for like 4 months but was pretty serious abt her wanted to marry her he says, and she broke up with my bf cos she was still in love wiht her ex and patched up with him). So whn i we jus strtd dating he told me lots abt her and their story too and in the beginning i tot he is to honest but now i m confused. firstly he si still in touch with ehr even tho he knows tat hurts me. she broke up her bf adn she tries to meet my bf every now and then like movie or event or coffee/dinner. adn he never denies her invitation rather asks me if we can both go or if i m away , he asks me if he can go... sumtimes i tell him no directly and he doesnt go but whnever we hv some conversation abt how gfs r jealous etc he says i m jealous adn not reasonable. other than tat , if she has some issue he wants to be ther for her. Also i kno he has bought her gifts but since we hv been dating , he never bought me a single thing and even whn we go out for dinner he makes me split the bill... my brain says i shud stop this prolly he thinks i don deserve to splurged on i dunno... but i really like him and i end up listening to my heart... pls help me... is he still in lvoe with ehr or does he love her more than me? is there a way to solve this issue? Link to comment
happyfrank Posted November 11, 2011 Share Posted November 11, 2011 Told you i m jealous adn not reasonable? That's red flag. Somebody who has still contact with his ex girlfriend and still wants to hang out with her alone. Yup he still has feeling for her. You deserve respect and shouldn't be treated like that. Link to comment
annwinsall Posted November 11, 2011 Author Share Posted November 11, 2011 thanks for the reply happyfrank. don wanna sound defensive but its not always bad. its jus the times whn somehow he/ i bring up her name ... would ther be a way to find out for sure or mayb i m being paranoid abt it and reading too much in between the lines. Link to comment
camus154 Posted November 11, 2011 Share Posted November 11, 2011 You need to dump this guy immediately and move on. Link to comment
annwinsall Posted November 11, 2011 Author Share Posted November 11, 2011 thanks .. but i think i really love him and to extent i kno even he does. more than anything , i think its the fear of being alone. Link to comment
camus154 Posted November 11, 2011 Share Posted November 11, 2011 I'm sure you do feel love for him, but sadly that's not enough to sustain a relationship. Fear of being alone is normal. But being ok with being alone is a very, very liberating thing. Plus you learn a thing or two about yourself Link to comment
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