AnnaN Posted November 9, 2011 Share Posted November 9, 2011 I've recently broke up, it's been almost a week. I'm 27, by ex is 31. My boyfriend dumped me after 4 years of a perfect relationship because he wanted to be alone and figure out aother things in his life, like career etc and that 4 years was enough for him he wants to live as a single now, no women around for the next year. We had the perfect relationship from the very first moment, I had never felt that way before. We spent 4 amazing years, he was everything I ever wanted, we felt each other as soulmates. And he was saying he was feeling the same. It was like this till the night before the break up, we were making plans for the Christmas holidays. And the next day he said he loves me, is in love with me like the very first day, we had a great relationship but he doesn't want to be in a relationship any more. I know he had a fear for commitments, he wasn't ready for any further step, but I never asked him to, I never cared about this stuff, I just wanted to be with the love of my life. So, I thought I had found love, and now I lost it. How can I hope that I will find it again? I had such a nice relationship with someone that I thought he had everything I wanted. I don't have the strength to search for love again. When I think I have found it, it may be over again, out of the blue... I don't believe there's something out there for me any more... Link to comment
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