r350 Posted November 8, 2011 Share Posted November 8, 2011 Cut to the chase. Was seeing a girl for a while, at the start it was really good, but around 2-4 weeks in we were squabbling quite abit over her trust issues, commitment issues, boundary issues and other stuff, she wasnt/isnt sure on whether we are right together 'serious-relationship' wise as she 'says' she wants to settle down with someone, and she feels I am not ready for something serious and I still want to be 'playing the field'. She said not long ago 'lets just be friends' which im kinda fine with for the minute (even though 'I THINK I MAY' have feelings for her and she 'MAY' have feelings for me.) Then the other night I was out and I seen her, the next day she wanted me to ring her and she said she loved seeing me the night before, she misses me, misses talking to me every day, misses the way it used be at the start, misses my kisses, cuddles etc..and in a kind of jokey way she said 'should we be friends with benefits?' and then laughed. Whether it was a joke or a serious request..I have no idea. From then onwards she has been reallllly nice to me, wont stop texting me, wont stop ringing etc nd she says its nice at the moment because we are not worrying about whether we are a couple and other things etc. She said she wants me to take her to the cinema soon (which I know will lead to kissing, cuddling etc which she said she wants!) and she also wants me to take her away for the weekend. Now if shes so willing for me to take her out, cuddle, kiss and basically act like a couple, then why is she so scared of a relationship with me? I know she has serious trust issues, and it takes her a while to be able to trust anyone..But does this all sound like she's keeping me there until somebody better comes along? Or does it sound as though she wants to take things reeaallll slow before she decides if I am right for her and her 6month old daughter? HELP! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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