jes777 Posted November 8, 2011 Share Posted November 8, 2011 My partner and I were together for ten years when I ended up having an affair he found out about. I have told both parties that I need space to think about things but my childs father is taking things really badly and cant seem to cope. I know inside that the spark has gone between us and although we get on really well most of the time I see him as a brother type. I have told him I want space but he is at my house morning and night pleading with me, I wish he could just give me the space I need to reflect on things as I may feel different if he backed off but because he is in such a state I want to console and look after him. I know i should be tougher on him and tell him but thats easier said than done when he is crying in my lap. I have thought about going away for a few days with my son as that seems the only way to have some space but Im worried about leaving him alone. I am desperate for another baby and that seems to be the only thing keeping me in limbo but is it really possible to go back to a relationship that had died sexually after experiencing real intimacy with the new guy? Link to comment
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