Why do i feel like the bad guy?

[jimbobday]

Basically i dumped my girlfriend due to her being emotionally neglectful for.about the last month and her being really distant. Not to mention the next to no sex

 

Yet i feel so bad she basically blamed everything on me said she is absolutely screwed because of me, will fail her exams and has no where.to live. She said thanks for showing me your true character you * * * * * * *

 

Why do i feel like the bad guy here. I feel like ive done.something horrible to her.

[jordan5508]

If you dumped her than you probably had a good reason to as it's a big decision.

 

No one likes to get dumped... that's why she so pissed off.

 

Start no contact and it'll be fine.

 

You obviously weren't happy. NC will help you sort through your feelings. Break-ups are a part of life. Accept it - she should accept it too.

[jimbobday]

Thanks dude.

 

Plan to start no contact as soon as our place has been sorted out

[jordan5508]

Good.

 

Start as soon as possible. It's the ONLY option and therefore the best option.

 

Let me know how it goes.

[annie24]

I would need to know more about why she was being emotionally distant. what was going on? was there a good reason (ie, mother just died, stress at work?) How long were you together? did you try to bring up your concerns to her or was this out of the blue? did you two live together?