champagne69 Posted October 10, 2011 Share Posted October 10, 2011 I'm a virgin as is my boyfriend but only being 18 we haven't been in a rush to have sex, we both wanted me to be on the pill and I only got on that about a month ago, and have always just agreed that it'll happen when it happens. The other night however, we did try, he had given me oral for quite some time beforehand, which nearly every single time he gives me oral sex I orgasm at least once. I was well self lubricated, we also used plenty of lube, but with a lot of patience he couldn't get his penis in. Which the mood was good, we were completely alone, and he took it really slow, when I let him actually try harder, I had a lot of pain, but he says he thinks the head of the penis went in? I dunno, but I also think that the angle of my body probably wasn't the best because when I got frustrated and we gave up I fingered myself and realised the angle in which he was pushing it in was just forcing into a mass of muscle. What's the best angle/position for losing your virginity? I am very tight, I've done a lot of research and wondered if I was 'too tight' and would need a dilator or something but I've read those women who are that extremely tight cannot even insert a finger? I can comfortably be fingered with one finger, two of my fingers also fine, two of my boyfriends fingers however it does get a bit uncomfortable and a little painful around the opening of the vagina but with lube it's fine. So seeming as my boyfriend can finger me with two fingers I'm hoping there isn't some condition I have? Any advice on this, I am keen to eventually have sex one day, I don't expect it to be without pain the first few times, but I just want to figure this out, it makes me feel pretty down when we're designed to reproduce and I can't even get a penis inside my vagina ha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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