Onlyhuman23 Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 I feel sooo bad right now!! I have no clue what to do next. I just * * * * ed things up bad with a girl I've been seeing because I expected that she loved me, but when I asked her if she did (this kinda slipped out), she said she didn't have feelings like that yet. And rightfully so, because its only been a short time of knowing each other. I guess I'm the type that is way more open about considering things "love" and my perspective is kinda shewed. What we had... I felt something through her actions and intimacy when we were together, so I didn't see how she couldn't feel anything. My perception kind of grew right there on the spot of her being plain out cold (I was so wrong to think this). I let my emotions and impatience get in the way of a beautiful thing we had going. I fell for her too hard, and got upset when I heard this. I've been with a lot of needy girls in the past, but this one is the complete opposite and I SHOULD like that much better, but because of it I feel like now I'm turning into he needy one > Well I kind of jumped the gun BAD. I more or less told her that I wanted to be just friends because we're not on the same level relationship wise, and I expected more attachment from her at this point. I don't want to get hurt because I care about her a lot. BUT NOW I FEEL LIKE MY THOUGHTS WERE TOTALLY IRRATIONAL. She's showed me a lot of signs of commitment, and I feel like I didn't respect her pace. WHAT DO I DO!? I want to change things back, but I feel like this move I made to want to be friends, hurt her a lot. Maybe this space from me for a while will be a good thing? I know she really likes me, and we've had some great times. I want to apologize, but I don't want to feel like I'm running back to her with my tail between my legs. I want to give her space to think, because I feel like even though I might have been wrong to pressure her, I want to show her that I'm not afraid to leave if she doesn't meet me half-way. SO, do I play the waiting game, give her a week or what-not? Do I talk to her tomorrow? I don't even know the exact words I want to use yet. Please enotalone help me out here, I'm so upset. Link to comment
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