hurting2121 Posted August 31, 2004 Share Posted August 31, 2004 Well I remained in NC for 1 month. I decided to call her to see what was happening. It looks like it might have worked and she told me she missed me, sorry etc.. She will call me later she told me. I will let you know what happens. Do you believe this is a good sign? Link to comment
herewegoagain Posted August 31, 2004 Share Posted August 31, 2004 definitely a good sign!! i wish i had the same situation as you. Link to comment
Beec Posted August 31, 2004 Share Posted August 31, 2004 Yes, but be vague and aloof. Don't go declaring an undying desire to get back together. You obviously missed her somewhat or you would not have called. You also must want her back, but don't make it clear to her. Link to comment
Vert Posted August 31, 2004 Share Posted August 31, 2004 Beec, I agree. Too bad everyone doesn't just lay their concerns on the table in a relationship thought -- instead we have to dance around it like we don't care but really do. Link to comment
Beec Posted August 31, 2004 Share Posted August 31, 2004 Vert, it is too bad. But we are humans, not big friendly dogs. One of my dogs wanted attention, I walked up to me wagging its tail. I've rarely had one of my women do that. And I have had them give me the cold shoulder when all they wanted was attention. I knew it, but I didn't understand it. Link to comment
hurting2121 Posted September 1, 2004 Author Share Posted September 1, 2004 I hope it works out for me..Any advice I am so nervouse because I finally have the chance to get her back Link to comment
Beec Posted September 1, 2004 Share Posted September 1, 2004 Listen more, listen with your your eyes and ears and body, listen to her whole body and being, talk less, be vague and aloof. Link to comment
LostAngel Posted September 1, 2004 Share Posted September 1, 2004 Hi hurting2121 Beec is 100% right. I had my chance & messed it all up by moving to fast too soon--being too clingy, bringing up relationship things & by pushing too soon & not being aloof enough...NOW I'M BACK TO WHERE I STARTED... You can read my posts if you like (IN GETTING BACK TOGETHER) THEY ARE: "Im not sure what to do -I JUST WANT TO BE WITH HIM" & "I NEARLY GOT HIM BACK BUT NOW - i've messed up my chance" BE CAREFUL -DON'T MESS UP YOUR CHANCES...It IS so EASY to. TAKE IT SLOW -Like me you will want it all to be as it was -BUT THINGS HAVE CHANGED & YOU HAVE TO TAKE TIME ON EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS FROM NOW ON---THESE ARE THE MOST CRUCIAL MOMENTS I hope I'M HELPING YOU... LostAngel Link to comment
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