dream222 Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 So I want your opinion, more like to confirm what I already think is true, that this is a lost case. My boyfriend of 10 months broke up with me 3 weeks ago. During this time I have experienced the whole shock for 2-3 days, the awkward feeling realizing you're suddenly single, then sadness and anger about 4 days ago when I saw him at a party and he acted like we were just barely acquaintances. When I got home that night I sent him a really angry email, saying how he is a narcissist incapable of caring about another human being etc. He replied saying you will be treated the way you act and how he had made such a good decision to break up with me, and that he was going to ignore that rest of that email. I know I should have not sent that email, it was very impulsive but he hurt me, he broke up with me when I needed him most, when I was going through a really stressful time in my life, with one thing going wrong after another. He stopped putting any effort into the relationship and distanced himself. We also dated 2 years ago for a few months and I broke up with him because he distanced himself a lot. So essentially the same situation, except this time I waited for him to break up with me. And the whole time after the first break up I never stopped thinking of him even while dating, until we got back together. I miss the closeness I had with him, I miss how wonderful it felt when things were going great. For one thing, the physical chemistry was always so freaking big between us. And I know that when I compare him to any guys around me, (including a guy that I've just met and sort of went on a date with...) he wins. And if I compare the adventages to dissadventages of dating him there are always too many advantages, so, essentially, I think I want him back AGAIN. But I feel like unlike last time, this is officially a lost case, that this breakup is final and he won't ever change his mind. We currently have to see each other once a week for the next 2 months because of work and now he barely speaks to me, especially after I sent him that angry email. I feel like this is even more of a lost case since in about 7 months he will be switching jobs and moving to a different part of the country, which means the chances of our paths crossing again after that are about 0. The first time we broke up he was still contacting me after it happened, but this time he hasn't besides a work related email (and the angry reply to my angry email...) and I can almost swear that he never will get in touch with me now, that I lost him. What is the best thing for me to do? Link to comment
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