Question about difficulty masturbating and having sex

[Orange]

Ok, I am a female who is almost 18 years old. I have never had an orgasm....and I almost came close to having sex once. My hymen was broken but I didn't go through with having sex. My question relates to this in that I find it very difficult to insert a tampon (like it has to get past this bone or something and it kinda hurts when I try to do so....and then when its in, maybe I didn't put it far enough in, it is uncomfortable) and then to take it out, and I find it difficult to finger myself as I can only fit one finger inside at the most, sometimes I can fit two but it hurts a little and is uncomfortable.

 

I've tried masturbation both with the clitoris and penetration but I don't feel much, if any, pleasure with my clitoris and I cannot go ahead with putting anything into my vagina that is bigger than my one finger, because it is uncomfortable or starts to hurt. I was wondering if this was normal? Will I ever be able to have sex normally without pain and discomfort? Would a penis be too big to get past that pelvic bone? At the moment I don't have anyone who I would want to have sex with, but I think if I did I would be really scared to try for fear it wouldn't fit and fear of the pain. Any advice is appreciated...Thanks.

[Cloud802]

I may have not had sex yet, but you really shouldn't fear it. I know a good site that could probably help you with this semi-problem.

 

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They could probably help you with this, if not then you need to get help as this kind of thing has been known to screw up people's psychies.

[Ravens_eternity]

i don't think you have anything to worry because when i had sex with my ex for the frist time she was like you mybe even worse but then when after the frist time we where doing it like monkey every day. so don't worry lots of my friend where like that.