girlfromjersey Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 Why seriously? Could you at least wait until I am done with folding laundry? Or finished washing dishes? Or perhaps you could stop me with what I am doing, I don't mind it...but at least ask me nicely, make it fun....make it intriguing. KISS my ear, whisper it. Don't just say, " Can you give me a bj '' as if you were asking for cookies or any other ordinary thing. Really love you but sometimes its annoying. I just need that extra....I can't think of a word. Wonder if all men are like that, eventually. Link to comment
ForumGuy Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 That is not a loving way to ask at all. This guy is not interested in you as a person, just in the favors you can provide for him. Link to comment
Snowy Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 Maybe you make yourself too available and give him everything he asks for. Therefore, he now feels comfortable just asking for it without doing any work, and he probably believes he's not doing anything wrong. Link to comment
MrsAshton Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 At least he's honest. Link to comment
imsuperman Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 Well I just point. No, I'm kidding. You're right. Tell him to think of a better way to ask next time he does that. Link to comment
jeremyy Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 Did you give him the BJ? If you did, you're the best girlfriend ever. My ex would offer to give BJs; I think that's why I was so whipped. Link to comment
tommytoxen Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 Why seriously? Could you at least wait until I am done with folding laundry? Or finished washing dishes? Or perhaps you could stop me with what I am doing, I don't mind it...but at least ask me nicely, make it fun....make it intriguing. KISS my ear, whisper it. Don't just say, " Can you give me a bj '' as if you were asking for cookies or any other ordinary thing. Really love you but sometimes its annoying. I just need that extra....I can't think of a word. Wonder if all men are like that, eventually. Have you TOLD him this? Communication is the key. Funnily enough, my girlfriend nagged me for the opposite reason, i used to ask nicely, and one night she turned round and just said "If you want it just take it!!" as in, she just wants me to grab her and make her randomly whenever I want. But she is into submission. Link to comment
jingletruck Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 On the other hand, one time I interrupted my girlfriend while she was doing dishes and asked if she would kindly suck my . She just dropped down to her knees with dishwashing gloves still on, sucked me off, swallowed, and went back to doing dishes without saying a word. Hottest. thing. ever. Link to comment
Fudgie Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 I guess you could tell him that you don't like it. Personally, I enjoyed it when my past boyfriends asked frankly "Can I please have a BJ?". I'd get down and do it. I liked that they felt they could be open and direct with me. Link to comment
DrKitten Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 I dated a guy briefly who wouldn't even ask. He'd say, "I want a BJ." I found it so rude and condescending. I love giving oral and I'm happy to do it but I'm not a BJ dispensing machine. That approach completely turned me off. I don't think my current guy has ever asked me for one. He's never needed to, really. Link to comment
beautifulzen Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 My first boyfriend would not. leave. me. alone. about. it. I absolutely hated doing it because of that. Luckily it was a non-issue with my next boyfriend and everyone since. Now I volunteer to do it. Link to comment
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