BabyO Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 It was my Birthday and he could not even wsh me a Happy Birthday! It has been 24 days since the break up and 15 days of NC. But, the way I see it is really am I just a piece of crap. Like what we had was not real, and especially since our break was because it was a LDR, not any cheating, fighting or anything major happened etc. I thought he would have at least had some respect and kindness to say Happy Birthday... I am soooooooooooooooooooooooo upset, all I do it cry. I don't feel any better since day one of this whole nightmare..... Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 Just out of curiosity, if you are NC him... Why would you want him to wish you happy birthday? Link to comment
misguided angel Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 maybe he didn't want to give you any false hope Link to comment
BabyO Posted June 23, 2011 Author Share Posted June 23, 2011 I am only NC because I am so upset over how he just ended. It is not like I want to be. After his last email to me saying how he has to leave and it could be a huge mistake, only time will tell. I go so sick to my stomach that I just ended up not replying or talking to him. I thought maybe he felt like I was so mad that he broke it off and felt weird contacting me for my B-Day. I don't know! All I know is our relationship ended for no good reason at all. How do you let something go when nothing bad caused the break up? Link to comment
GrowingIn Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 To show her that he cares. Hey at least yours didn't break up with you on your birthday like my ex did. In your case though it doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't care. It's possible he does, but doesn't want to break NC because it would actually slow down the healing process. Link to comment
alli Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 Yeah, with NC you pretty much never talk to each other unless absolutely necessary (ie, kids are involved, maybe a traumatic accident in the family, etc). It's just the way it is. You wanted him to contact you, but maybe he figured that if he did say something to you, he would dominate your thoughts all day on what should be YOUR day. I don't see it as maliciousness, just the standard NC. I'm sure you are NOT a piece of crap. Link to comment
DN Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 I think it is always a Catch22 in wishing an ex Happy Birthday - if you do it is looked on as giving false hope or being hypocritical and if you don't it is considered heartless. Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 Which is my point. Why would you want your ex to give you false hope? Link to comment
Meriem Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 Happy belated! It's better that he didn't, gives you more strengh tocontinue NC.. DON'T Hbday him on his Bday, he's not worth it Link to comment
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