Wow I just bumped into my ex her guy. She is a liar.

[Snowy]

Okay I was walking home and I literally walked right past my ex with the guy. When she saw me, she couldn't even look me in the eyes.

 

 

 

Now I know it's all bloody lies.

 

She told me today she was going out with her mum but I had a feeling she was going to meet up with the guy. Now I know for sure.

 

She has told me she will never get into a relationship with this guy because she doesn't like him. Now I know that's a lie as well.

 

 

I feel stupid.

 

Why did I even date such a person? Now I have a huge suspicion she cheated on me before our break up as well. Sneaky little rat.

 

This is by far the biggest setback I've had since the break up 2 months ago.

 

I have school exams starting on Monday which I should be studying for but I can't concentrate.

 

我操。

[ferna3069]

i feel for you. i was cheated in my first break up. but you can never tell who they really are until its to late

[guynextdoor]

First off don't feel stupid, you weren't the person that lied or was deceitful. 2ndly this is what you need to see to realize who she truly is, thus will help you move on. Focusing this isn't going to further your life, focusing on school will.

[Snowy]

Yeah now I fully know how she is.

 

Also: We to go the same Saturday language school and we sit next to each other. So how should I act next week? Should I still act friendly, and as if nothing happened?

[guynextdoor]

Why pretend to act friendly? Who are you fooling man? You both know its going to be ackward. If she says hi, just say hi back. Theres no need for chit chat. I know its difficult to pretend she doesn't exist but its more difficult to pretend everything is ok.

[Snowy]

Well ever since the break up, we've been on acquaintance/friendly terms when we see each other on Saturdays. Everything has been okay. (The break up wasn't ugly)

 

I don't miss her and I don't want her back.

 

When I see her next week, I just don't want to give the impression that I got crushed or anything. (I don't feel crushed at all.)

[guynextdoor]

Play it cool, go with the flow but you don't need to be too friendly. Why would you? She lied man, thats not cool. Like any other friend if they lied to you are you going to act friendly to them? heck no.

[inglesia]

I think it can be constructive to have negative feelings for your ex in the short term because you'll know that it's really over and that you can't be with her again. In the long term though she's only human and there's no point in being bitter about it.

[Snowy]

Play it cool, go with the flow but you don't need to be too friendly. Why would you? She lied man, thats not cool. Like any other friend if they lied to you are you going to act friendly to them? heck no.

 

You're right. I should just go with the flow.

 

I think it can be constructive to have negative feelings for your ex in the short term because you'll know that it's really over and that you can't be with her again. In the long term though she's only human and there's no point in being bitter about it.

 

Lol. I knew we were totally over before we even broke up. I'm over her. Even if she begged to get back with me, I wouldn't do it. It's just that seeing her with the guy took me by surprise today.

[pinkelephant]

You'll be glad to know one day. At least you found out and got away from someone like her.

[Snowy]

I was glad I had got away from her the day we broke up.

 

Like I said, I don't want her back or anything.

[jonesyjakk]

closure now.....simple!!!! thats your closure!!! bumpety bump!

 

in the long run its the best thing...no more wonder...good luck with exams!

 

 

jonesy

[Snowy]

Yep no more wondering.

 

Thanks Jonesy.

 

Good luck with your healing too.