HELP ME! I AM SHY AND I DONT KNOW HOW TO MAKE OUT

[Bustapatman87]

Sup,

 

Well i got a problem.Im shy.Im going with an outgoing girl and she wants to make out like the time we r out at the movies next week

But I am 1. Shy 2. I have never made out b4 and i need help from yall.

Can yall tell me every detail every specific on kissing/making out with a girl.I need to know where u put the hands.How long each time u move lips everything i need to know where to breathe out nose or mouth WHAT?! im sooo confused ive never gone out with a girl b4 and shes expecting me to make out wit her and I AM but i need help from u guys plz help me thx i need all the help i can get TELL ME EVERYTHING every small detail im so nervous

[Chrstina69]

1. The Beginner's Kiss

A simple meeting of the lips. Your lips may brush against each other or gently press together. Done with finesse, this can be a fantastic starting point. A variation of this is to "swirl" your lips slowly around your lover's. Relax, let go and allow your lips to roam over and around your lover's mouth -- real bliss with little effort.

 

2. The Butterfly Kiss

Using your eyelashes, gently flutter them accross your lover's lips, eyelids, cheeks, neck and, when kissing the breasts, on the nipples, too.

 

3. The Droplet

Try experimenting with this in the heat of passion. If you're on top of your lover and kissing passionately, withdraw your lips slightly from his and allow a few droplets of your saliva to drip gently into his mouth.

 

4. The Eastern Swirl and Poke

This may be applied to the lips or the body. Relax your lips and allow your tongue to swirl and poke. Alternating these swirling and poking sensations feels wonderful.

 

5. The good old French Kiss

With open mouths, your tongues gently probe and swirl against the delicate skin inside the mouth.

 

6. The Lover's Pass

When you want to pass something in a sensual way to your lover -- perhaps a piece of chocolate, fruit or ice -- simply hold it gently between your lips and allow your mouth to touch his. Then, using your tongue, push the item into his mouth.

 

7. The Lush Lap

More controlled than the Naughty Dog, this kiss still involves a lapping motion with your tongue, but is more contained and controlled, with your lips kept close to your lover's skin. With your lips parted, use a firm, slow lap of the tongue pressed to her (or his) flesh, lips or mouth. Again, this kiss puts you in control and feels incredibly sexy to a lover who likes to yield to your moves.

 

8. The Medieval Necklet

Said to be enjoyed by knights of the realm when medieval ladies wore low-cut necklines. Gently circle your lover's neck with a series of kisses, moving from the lower neck just behind the ear, around the breastbone and finishing back behind the other ear. Both men and women enjoy the slow circular pattern being traced along this delicate skin.

 

9. The Mediterranean Flick

Said to originate from Latin lovers who flicked little beads of sweat from their lover's body during long hot summers of passion. Using a gentle flick of the tongue, you cover your lover's lips, cheeks, neck -- in fact, anywhere you please -- with delicate little flicks. This is perfect for the nipples and around the belly button.

 

10. The Naughty Dog

A passionate, earthy kiss, particularly good for larger erogenous zones such as the neck, breasts, abdomen and inner thigh. Let your mouth open loosely and allow your tongue to relax and "lap" at your lover's body. This feels incredible when applied from the lower part of the breast up to the tip of the nipple -- the tongue just flicking the nipple as the "lapping" motion finishes.

 

11. The Sliding Kiss

The tongue moves gently back and forth or in and out. A perfect kiss, too, for gently "sliding" erotic food -- such as sauces and creams -- off your lover's body as your foreplay develops.

 

12. The Snake

Moving on from the Mediterranean "flick," allow your tongue to flick, lap, poke and generally imitate that of a snake. This can take place while French kissing but can also be used all over your lover's body. It feels fantastic moving up and down the shaft of the penis or outer labia.

 

13. The Stretch

When French kissing, stretch your tongue up to rub the roof of your lover's mouth. People rarely focus on this area, yet the sensations your tongue can create here can be quite explosive.

 

14. The Vacuum Kiss

Allow your lips to relax and encircle your partner's lips with your own. Apply a gentle sucking motion that pulls on the much-neglected outer rim of the lips. Release the vacuum seal and then reapply. You're taking control and your lover's lips will yield to yours. You may also apply the vacuum to a single lip -- upper or lower. Also use the vacuum on your lover's tongue during French kissing, which will feel like heaven. If you apply the vacuum more firmly to your partner's body it'll become a lovebite -- see below.

[HP-love craft]

lol, its not a thing thats going to break you guys up, the first time jake ever kissed me...it was great. i didnt care how he kissed me. i cared that he loved me enough to actully have the courage to kiss me. and he didnt just kiss me, he asked first. make sure you ask. because i was happy when he asked

[Amannamederic]

wow for a 13 year old you sure know alot lol, the truth is if you try to do everything right your just going to mess up. The same with picking her up and even initiating the kiss, the one thing women hate is a guy who refuses to be himself or wont tease them with what they want, if you just rush into it and are smothering her all your going to get is a half-assed response that wont be fun for either of you. At least thats how it always seems to have worked on my side of things, but again it could be completely different for your girl.

 

If you really want to kiss her well then you wont go on the internet and do a google on kissing techniques, or ask other people. Youll kiss her in whatever way seems natural and more than likely, if she likes you, it will be more than enough to send her straight home to tell all her friends. Im just telling you what has worked for me...oh...and making out doesnt include a hand sliding up her shirt, kissing should be fun for the both of you and 9 times out of 10 a hand sliding around wont do anything but annoy her and make her think thats all you want.

 

Again i cant stress enough, this is just the way i do things, i dont put an emphasis on getting some and just kiss to have all the fun that kissing brings and if you just relax, hold her hand, and dont suck her face off im sure youll find things alot more fun, and maybe if your lucky leading to other things later

 

Good Luck,

 

-Eric

[HP-love craft]

wow for a 13 year old you sure know alot lol,

 

well your not to bright, 14 duh. lol nah jk jk. but seriously dude. just be yourself, and again. dont slide your hand up her shirt. she doesnt want that, well thats not what i wanted. he tryed that and i moaned, must have been quite embarrising. yea, so when you feel the time is right, ASK HER FIRST, and kiss her

 

gee, do you really think im smart, lol.

[Amannamederic]

lmao i was typing that to the 13 year old who posted a kissing guide not you sorry about that

[goddess23]

lol, HP, he was referring to christina 69 lmao. anyways, about making out for the first time. the best advice is to do what naturally comes to you and its true that if she likes you which she obviously does, she will love anything you do respectively. now about technique you were asking about. you didnt specifiy if you 2 have kissed yet. if not then its a little different, but making out....start with normal kissing, you hands should be caressing her face holding on to her shoulders or arms, even around her waist, just nothing too sexual that will make her feel uncomfortable. breathe through your nose and if you feel like you need air or something, stop for a second look into her eyes and kiss her face (cheeks, forehead etc) or her neck. now once you've been kissing normally for a little bit, open your mouth and pull on one of her lips, and slowly start introducing your tongue to her mouth. if she reciprocates then continue, since its the first time do it gently. try turning your head now and then so it doesnt get boring, and move your tongue around to explore. it will come naturally i guarentee you, i was nervous not too long ago but it wasnt so hard. now MUCH later, you can suck on her tongue but thats when you two are really comfortable when you guys have had many make out sessions but for now just stick with the above.

[Dave The Fave]

All these people did a great job explaing it to you, there nothing really I can add execpt something that always works for me. From personal experience girls absolutely love it when you kiss there neck. Good Luck!

Dave 8)

[Chrstina69]

hey ya'll i got that from a site.. but some guy did some of thsoe things with me and it felt good.. soo whatever.. and yeahh im smart very smart...but yeah.. dont lift ur hand up her shirt.. and sometimes.... actually u dont have to ask.. if she told u she wanted to make out next time.. y ask when u already no its ok? durhh! sooo yeahhh do what u think is rite. and when ur ready.. not when shes ready.. it has to be both of u.. and sometimes i like it when a guy surprises me like during the movies and looks at me and then kisses me.. soo cute hope it helps

[Bustapatman87]

U GUYS WHERE AND HOW DO U BREATHE PLZ TELL ME

[ComputerGuy]

Through your nose

[Chrstina69]

yeah through ur nose.. and sometimes look into her eyes.. that one person said and breathe and that makes it more intense cuz shell be wanting more and ur teasing her