Grap_drink Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 A couple weeks in the start of the semester and I started to notice this girl in my class more. I found out just by her accent and overhearing that she's actually from France. I know really I could just think she's any other girl but honestly thats a big cultural difference. I was thinking maybe just be direct and straight up(in a polite manner) like I usually am, so I'm wondering if thats a good idea? Link to comment
Shudder Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 just go up to her and say voulez-vous coucher avec moi? i think she'll know you're interested Link to comment
Grap_drink Posted March 8, 2011 Author Share Posted March 8, 2011 As much as I like to be direct and let them know I'm interested thats a little too direct XD I'm most likely going to just tell her more politely then that. Just wondering if anyone think thats a better idea, Link to comment
aminaSa Posted March 10, 2011 Share Posted March 10, 2011 dating culture of Europe is much different from the dating culture of USA,start talking to her....and after a few days you ask her out,you will notice by then if she is interested Link to comment
LBP Posted March 10, 2011 Share Posted March 10, 2011 My experience with dating a French girl is that becoming a couple is viewed as something very organic in their culture. There's not 'hey, let's go on a date'. It's more, 'hey, let's go do something'. And things happen as they happen. The whole idea of 'are we together now?' and 'are we boyfriend and girlfriend?' is much less prevalent there than it is here. As an aside, best of luck to you. Dating a French girl was one of the best times in my life! Link to comment
sophie274 Posted March 10, 2011 Share Posted March 10, 2011 just go up to her and say voulez-vous coucher avec moi? i think she'll know you're interested LOL please don't. If I had a dollar for every guy who thought that line was cute and unique ... it's not! I don't think there is such a big cultural difference as far as dating though ... though for my friends in France there's not this concept of "are we exclusive" "are we dating others" - as soon as they are going out with and kissing/being physical with someone, they're an item. That might just be my group of friends. I wouldn't "tell her you're interested". I would just ask her out. Link to comment
Shudder Posted March 10, 2011 Share Posted March 10, 2011 LOL please don't. If I had a dollar for every guy who thought that line was cute and unique ... it's not! . lol i actually joking about that. i don't expect anyone to say that directly Link to comment
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