How do i leave her?

[dragonchild88]

ok...i know how bad this is but i can help how i feel, what i ve done...i can only change...and im not gonna make the same mistake again....but...

me and my gf were goin out for about 3 months...but she is quite a slow mover...so to try and progress our relationship...i told her i loved her. now for the horrible bit....a week later i ve met someone else, asked them out and they ve said yes....how do i dump the girl i said ' i love you' too????

[brokenpogostick]

16 and you told someone you love them? i'm sorry, but you prolly need to be a little older to realize the real meaning of love. if you found someone else then it's obvious that you weren't happy with her. tell her the truth and move on with your new lady if that's what you choose.

[ECD]

dude wow... that was a very stupid thing to do. Give her the "lets just be friends" line, and really MEAN it. Be as nice to her as possible and be her friend.

[dragonchild88]

obv i dont know 'true' love yet but that doesnt mean it doesnt mean anything at our age.it stills means a lot.....will she accept 'just friends'.....or hate me forever.......hmmm

[ECD]

most likely accept. Just dont tell her you asked someone out already.

[Scout]

When you say she was a slow mover, do you mean sexually? And if so, did she do things for you after you said "I love you"? Because if so, you need to do some serious soul searching, my friend.