lala12345 Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 Hmm, so there is this guy I like and I'll text him the odd time. Sometimes he won't text back, so unfortunately I text him more than once. I know thats needy but I don't do that anymore. Anyways I texted him about an hour ago saying "I've finally got my texts woo!" And I got no reply. I haven't texted him since then and I don't intend to cus it seems a bit creepy haha What could be the reason for this? Could it be because I seemed needy before whenever I had texted him? Should I play it all cool and mysterious from now on and be chased, instead of me always starting a text convo? Link to comment
Stay_home Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 Had a woman that literally texted me ALL the time. It got so bad that I actually had to talk to her about it, which was where it shouldn't have gone in the first place. Hold your bearing and try not to text too much beyond making it obvious that you're interested. Sometimes too much of anything is a bad thing, remember. Link to comment
SpottiOtti Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 It seems to me, dear, that he's not that interested in you. Maybe it's time to turn the page on this one. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 Just be yourself, and wait and see if he decides to contact you. If he's interested, he'll be in touch. Link to comment
Jd1983 Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 Don't make yourself seem too available to him, it comes off as being desperate. Just leave it at that. You already contacted him, if he wants to get in touch with you, he knows where to contact you. Link to comment
lala12345 Posted January 12, 2011 Author Share Posted January 12, 2011 All very good advice! Would it be reasonable for me to seem...distant? As in don't contact him first, and if he does, act um mysterious? Link to comment
Jd1983 Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 No, don't play games either. Just wait for him to contact you, if not you'd already have your answer. Link to comment
lala12345 Posted January 12, 2011 Author Share Posted January 12, 2011 Ok I'll do that then Link to comment
sweetpea03 Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 All very good advice! Would it be reasonable for me to seem...distant? As in don't contact him first, and if he does, act um mysterious? No, don't play games. If he wants to be in contact with you, he will. Otherwise you know where he stands and that he is "just not that into you". Link to comment
lala12345 Posted January 28, 2011 Author Share Posted January 28, 2011 One point I left out, he's my ex Link to comment
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