Ex boyfriend mutual friends are hitting on me... should I be concerned?

[ImGrowing]

I don't give into their advances, but I'm wondering why are my ex's friends hitting on me. I just hope he doesn't tell them I'm "easy."

 

Are guy friends generally like this? I thought ex gf's are generally considered off limits among guy friends, of course unless they don't respect her.

 

Trust me, I don't come off that way. That's why I'm a bit concerned.

[addictedblue]

They probably met you through him and liked you but couldn't talk to you because you were taken but now you aren't. In my experience girls are more strict about not talking to each other's exes while guys tend to go after what they want regardless.

[BeDour]

Some guys even find it a turn on to do something taboo like hook up with their friends gf/ex gf. I'd just avoid them.

[capilot]

I don't think it's a taboo factor so much as "All right, ImGrowing is single again!"