Allipie Posted July 14, 2010 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Ok, so I've finally reached a happy point-put all the ex drama behind me, feel good about work, my body etc. I've met this one guy in passing a couple times and have seen him fairly frequently the past month. At a meeting, he made it a point to sit next to me. On the train ride home, he also made it a point to sit next to me when he could've sat next to a different girl. One day, he would just keep looking at me, at point talking to me and looking into my eyes (in a non creepy way). Another day I jokingly said that my job involved standing there and looking cute and he said 'now we know how you got where you are". Without giving too many details away, I just don't know if I'm reading things wrong or if he's just flirting. My last two guy situations were awful and I think I'm just trying to convince myself that this new guy is going to be like the last two. Link to comment
savignon Posted July 14, 2010 Share Posted July 14, 2010 What makes you think he would be like your exes? It all sounds good and normal to me. Link to comment
Allipie Posted July 14, 2010 Author Share Posted July 14, 2010 What makes you think he would be like your exes? It all sounds good and normal to me. haha i dont know...it's me being pessimistic about the situation. i just don't want to read the signs wrong. Link to comment
DN Posted July 14, 2010 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Seems positive - are you making it clear you are interested? Link to comment
Allipie Posted July 14, 2010 Author Share Posted July 14, 2010 Seems positive - are you making it clear you are interested? sort of. I just didn't know how to take everything at first. Just assumed the worst, i guess. But the past couple times, i've made it a point to be around him....i just want to make sure im not taking things the wrong way before i step it up. Link to comment
DN Posted July 14, 2010 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Well, don't leave it too long or he will move on - he may have already. Link to comment
Allipie Posted July 14, 2010 Author Share Posted July 14, 2010 Well, don't leave it too long or he will move on - he may have already. nah. it's only been going on for maybe a month? i only see him once a week. Link to comment
DN Posted July 14, 2010 Share Posted July 14, 2010 He could have met a lot of women in a month. Link to comment
Allipie Posted July 14, 2010 Author Share Posted July 14, 2010 true, but I'm pretty interesting and have a lot more personality and spunk than most women I've come accross in our city. Link to comment
DN Posted July 14, 2010 Share Posted July 14, 2010 true, but I'm pretty interesting and have a lot more personality and spunk than most women I've come accross in our city. no problem then. You must have guys lining up, I am surprised this guy even managed to find a vacant seat next to you. But if you are interested in him he may need more encouragement as he probably thinks you are 'out of his league'. Link to comment
Allipie Posted July 14, 2010 Author Share Posted July 14, 2010 Well, no problem then. You must have guys lining up, I am surprised this guy even managed to find a vacant seat next to you. But if you are interested in him he may need more encouragement as he probably thinks you are 'out of his league'. haha I'm just myself-outgoing and whatnot and don't pretend to be anything I'm not. I suppose that's what guys like? He's a good looking guy though, and we have a lot in common. Link to comment
xyzzzz Posted July 14, 2010 Share Posted July 14, 2010 well give him some signals...and if he;s interested he will make a move Link to comment
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