talk dirty

[TasmineFr]

My bf likes rough sex and i love it too he is really special in that way , yesterday we were doing it under the shower and he wanted me to talk real dirty to him and also aske me to spank him which i did , we used a few toys in the love making as well cause he luves that too ,but i have a problem , i am usually very quiet while we are making love ...it's only because i suuuu luv it that i wanna take in all of it in silence , but he wants me to talk dirty to him and i run out of things to say i am also too busy to feel the pleasure but i know i must make an effort so ...can u guys suggest a few things that worked with ur bf or gf ..i'd appreciate ... thanks

[PussInBoots]

My bf likes rough sex and i love it too he is really special in that way , yesterday we were doing it under the shower and he wanted me to talk real dirty to him and also aske me to spank him which i did , we used a few toys in the love making as well cause he luves that too ,but i have a problem , i am usually very quiet while we are making love ...it's only because i suuuu luv it that i wanna take in all of it in silence , but he wants me to talk dirty to him and i run out of things to say i am also too busy to feel the pleasure but i know i must make an effort so ...can u guys suggest a few things that worked with ur bf or gf ..i'd appreciate ... thanks

 

I dunno but in our house "hey honey can you take out the rubbish" always seams like something dirty to say also "oh look the mails here" both seam to get the same reaction..

[mca1975]

I could think of lots of things to say, but saying them is the hard part. Watch some porn movies and you will see what sort of things get said. It can make it really exciting.

 

I like to be banged hard sometimes but also made love to, with the odd dirty phrase. It's so exciting when you are with someone who is quiet and gentlemanly (although very turned on) who suddenly says something like "yeh let me take a look at those titties" - love it!

[OntheWire]

Record all the dirty talk on a voice recorder beforehand and then play it back when he says to talk dirty to him. Then he can hear what he wants to hear and you can remain silent. Easy money.

[Puddincup]

It would be hard to give you some examples on this forum (I don't think the mods would like that too much). I find that complimenting...er....certain body parts always goes over pretty well with my BF.

[teabee]

I imagine it would be hard to go from complete silence to talking dirty! I've never been completely silent and I am only starting to get comfortable with being more vocal. Talking dirty is a phase I will eventually get into, but I don't want to make myself self-conscious and I don't want it to be contrived.

 

So maybe you could work up to it?

Make some "mmm" sounds to show him you enjoy what he's doing.

Eventually incorporate "Yes!" "Right there!" and "That feels good"

Then try to introduce some raunchier phrases when you're comfortable with the above.

[PussInBoots]

My bf likes rough sex and i love it too he is really special in that way , yesterday we were doing it under the shower and he wanted me to talk real dirty to him and also aske me to spank him which i did , we used a few toys in the love making as well cause he luves that too ,but i have a problem , i am usually very quiet while we are making love ...it's only because i suuuu luv it that i wanna take in all of it in silence , but he wants me to talk dirty to him and i run out of things to say i am also too busy to feel the pleasure but i know i must make an effort so ...can u guys suggest a few things that worked with ur bf or gf ..i'd appreciate ... thanks

 

Just an idea but what about having a few glasses of wine together before hand Ive always had a prob talking that way too but after a few I can beet out the best trucker lol...

[Fudgie]

I don't really do "dirty talk" so much but just...I don't know, "appreciating" one another with words? That's a good way to put it for me.

 

The HOTTEST thing my boyfriend ever said was when we were making out one time and my shirt was off and I have love handles (not TOO bad but ya, they're there). He grabbed those and said "You are the most BEAUTIFUL woman EVER."

 

omg /melt/

[OptomisticGirl]

I It's so exciting when you are with someone who is quiet and gentlemanly (although very turned on) who suddenly says something like "yeh let me take a look at those titties" - love it!

 

lol, that had me giggling.

 

I have a problem talking dirty too. I still stumble over it sometimes and am usually the quiet one during that, my fiance is SO much better at dirty talking then I am. Just practice is all you can do.

[YakasJourney]

To me there are two categories of "dirty talk"--one I like and the other I just find funny and distracting. The good kind is when I hear something really primal like " * * * * me harder you feel so good inside me." That really turns me on. Sometimes though I hear something funny like "My you are a fine specimen!" or "You're a rockstar!" and it is just distracting. I actually don't enjoy stuff that sounds like a porn script.

[OptomisticGirl]

To me there are two categories of "dirty talk"--one I like and the other I just find funny and distracting. The good kind is when I hear something really primal like " * * * * me harder you feel so good inside me." That really turns me on. Sometimes though I hear something funny like "My you are a fine specimen!" or "You're a rockstar!" and it is just distracting. I actually don't enjoy stuff that sounds like a porn script.

 

lol, "You're a fine specimen".. I can imagine my fiance's fast if I said that to him.