Should I bring him along?

[lovelocks]

You all heard my story..Im in an age gap Relationship ect...me now 19 him 31

I realized I need to move back to my home state 1000 miles away from where I am living with my BF of 10 mts.

He wants to come with me and start a life with me up there.

I want this but then this is my chance for a clean break to heal from the loss of my brother a few months ago and get focused on my education ect..

I just dont know how to let him go I love him so much

 

HELP!!

[Fudgie]

Perhaps you can have both.

 

Why not head up there alone for a while by yourself? Give yourself some time to be alone, grieve, and get settled for some classes and stuff. He can prepare to move in the meantime.Then have your boyfriend move up and you can start a life together there.

[ToF]

Perhaps you can have both.

 

Why not head up there alone for a while by yourself? Give yourself some time to be alone, grieve, and get settled for some classes and stuff. He can prepare to move in the meantime.Then have your boyfriend move up and you can start a life together there.

 

I second this.