okgo83 Posted May 18, 2010 Share Posted May 18, 2010 Ok so, i went to school with this girl for years and for some reason we never spoke to each other. Probably due to us both being stupidly shy! A couple years out of high school we bumped into each other at a pub and got chatting. Connected really well, exchanged numbers and all that. I called her not long after and we went out on a few dates. Had plenty of laughs, a great time and always ended up kissing. She called me a couple times to come out with her and her friends. And then it just kind of stopped. She didn't respond as keenly to messages and it kind of just didn't go anywhere. I figured she just wasn't interested and I was a little disappointed but moved on. That was 3 years ago.... Two months ago we bumped into each other again, and again we hooked up! It's started again! We get along even better than before. So much in common. I've spoken to her about what happened last time and she said that she 'just freaked out' and has 'changed a lot since then' and she's really sorry. Anyway, we're in constant contact via good old facebook, have gone out 7-8 times in the past couple of months and i'm at the point where it's killing me to know what she's after! Had a coffee date the other night. We talked about it and she says that she really likes me, gets along so well with me, really comfortable with me, doesn't want to hurt me like last time, isn't sure what she wants right now, doesn't want to get into something and have it not work out and then lose me as a friend (Arrrrgghh...the friend zone!) so she's being a little cautious....but the date finishes with her giving me a big kiss. I've told her i'm not going anywhere, not in a hurry so we've left it at we'll just see what happens. She insists that she loves spending time with me but I'm conscious of the fact that i've asked her to go out a fair bit more than she's asked me. Could be the shyness? There's a ball coming up in two weeks that i'd like her to come to. But is this one of those 'give her space' things? What should i be doing here? Can a girl please give me a suggestion!? Haha. Link to comment
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