alwaysbelieve Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 I had a very interesting conversation with my best friend today over lunch. We brought up the topic of opposite-sex friendship. I'm a girl and he's a guy. He gave me some prospective on what guys think when the person they are dating have a guy bestfriend. He told me that some guys will be a little jealous, but play it cool because they do not want the girl to think that they are insecure. My best friend also told me that some of these guys will hang around and wait until the best friend does something bad, then they will manipulate the girl into thinking that the guy best friend is not really a good friend to her. Then eventually the friendship will end. My best friend also told me that when I do find that special person, he will willingly leave the friendship because he doesn't want to cause any friction between me and the guy. He only wants to see me happy. I said "no", I don't want that to happen. But he told me that it'll be healthy for my relationship, because the guy can feel completely secure in the relationship. I have told him about my past relationships, and he has always been there for me, no matter what..I don't know how to take what my best friend told me. Is he being extremely sweet, or does he want me out of his life. I have known my best friend for 15 years. What do you guys think? Link to comment
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