toughlife86 Posted May 12, 2010 Share Posted May 12, 2010 hey guys and girls... so here is my story short: this was my first love...she broke my heart!.. dated one year together another long distance, so 2 years...summer came in the second year, when we were long distance and she broke up with me...she said i dont love you anymore...but in reality there was another guy...well she never admmitted to this. i got mad and we never spolke again until i recontact her once i was back in her country...this must have been a year and a bit later after her and i broke up. she replied but then it all stoppped there (bare in mind she was still with the guy). so i left very far away ..and now that she has sort of broken up this relationship ..or sort of cause she might be back again with this guy...well she contacted me, basically she is having issues with the guy ( i think) and she recontacts me.. from my side: well it took me at least or almost a year to get over her. i do stil think of her from time to time but am over her..although she hurt me and then when i contacted her, lots later, she ignored me eventually... so the question is , what should i do? 1) answer and be polite 2) give her a taste of her own medicine and ignore her 3) confront her how she was never honest with me and that am not interested in being " friends" even though i forgave her but i think its better to leave stuff in the past 4) be friends the options are not in preferencial order btw , they just came up like that, if you have any other suggestions or have been in similar situations please do adivce cause am really confused about what to do... i mean am finally really really happy again, my life is great..dunno i felt like i was "really" 100% over her and i am but this might pull me back or i dunno. am not sure what to do , hehe thanx for your advice! Cheers Link to comment
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